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What Comes Next after Pre-Marital Sex?

LadyMagnet — Thu, 15 Feb 2007 14:27:17 +0000

Couples who get into their relationship on an intimate level are bound to end up making love and having sex. Such a result is only expected, especially if people end up losing control of their senses and allow their emotions to get the best of themselves. This involves people of all ages, from teenagers to adults. The after-effect is perhaps the most interesting part since it will measure if either of the two are only after the sexual satisfaction of it or is really something that comes naturally after intimacy.

Unlike in the early days, pre-marital sex was considered a grave offense. The virginity of a woman was safeguarded and considered the fruit and well-kept glory that a woman has. Today, the trend has dramatically changed. Sexual intercourse is a prelude to an intimate relationship, something that couples would consider as an automatic prerequisite towards proving their sincerity and love for one another.

While the essence of the sacredness of virginity has obviously been a thing of the past, more than half of the world’s new couples would most likely find themselves in bed with their partner. Some would say that it would be the judgment day of identifying and evaluating if the relationship that two people have are purely for fling purposes or really for keeps. Finding out the hard way through the latter is something that may indeed be painful, especially for the females. Males have nothing to lose, but females lose their virginity.

Break-ups that ensue after a satisfying time of sexual intercourse for once or a couple of times may be expected. Not to say that guys are only after sex, the selection process and proper assessment of a man before wholeheartedly giving in to the intimate desires also lies upon the female’s consent for it. In the same way, females are not expected to make the right decision all the time. But for most women, consent is done due to their love for the guy who may not always feel the same way.

In most cases, the rate of virginity in females today has severely dropped if compared to the olden day of preserving its sacredness prior to actual marriage. A lot of this can be attributed to the external factors and exposure that they see on television and from the people around them. There is no telling if virginity is an issue for people when they hook up. But one thing that is for sure, a man who goes beyond using virginity as a gauge for accepting a woman is like proving his love without any strings attached altogether.

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Valentine’s day fun

LadyMagnet — Mon, 29 Jan 2007 13:41:09 +0000

Valentines’ Day is about 2 weeks away and it is in many peoples’ minds one of the most important days of the year. With all the relationship opportunities it is an ideal time to cement into your life that special person who you have been chasing for so long. However, to other people it is an awkward time, filled with misery because there is nobody to share the day with. What makes this situation even worse is when you receive a valentines’ day card with the exact same writing as your mum’s! Never fear, this shouldn’t get you down, and instead it should be utilised with your advantageous skills in the art of seduction. Consider this; you will be on your own on the day. So will thousands of other people, and they are all thinking the same thing, so instead of feeling sorry, get out there and find a woman who you know is on her own and give her a good evening. Tell her you want to spend the evening doing something with her, whether it be ice skating, a movie, a meal or anything, and I am sure she will oblige. She might even enjoy it. Who after all really wants to be on their own? Make the most of a bad situation, which in actual fact is an ideal situation to hone your seduction skills even more. I myself have yet to organise anything, but I will be in search of a lady to spend the day with and I will let you know in due course how things pan out. Wouldn’t it be nice to think that everyone had someone on this day, and that we had all done our best to find somebody? It really isn’t that hard, and is a lot easier than you may think. Go to your local supermarket and look in baskets to see if there are meals for one, then you’ll know that that person is probably not in a relationship. Likewise, go running in your local park every morning and see the numerous singletons taking their daily run. Look for the one that matches your wants, and ask if you can run with her. All these things will improve your chances of finding someone to spend the day with, and it really is worth it. So put on your running shoes and get out on the open road.

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The tie of seduction

LadyMagnet — Sat, 27 Jan 2007 13:37:16 +0000

All the best seduction is done with a tie on. Apparently this is the new fashion for men who think seduction is constantly changing. Many would disagree, and rightly they should, who ever heard of wearing a tie to go and seduce a woman? It is ludicrous; although I am sure it would work. Nevertheless, with or without the tie, seduction will happen, and therefore it s false to claim that the tie gives any advantage.

Other pieces of clothing have also featured over the last few years as giving a distinct advantage when it comes to women, but I want to once and for all state that they don’t, and instead say that it is not one piece of clothing that gives an advantage but the whole article, and how you dress that makes a difference. If a girl sees you walking down the street with a fantastic tie and to die for pair of shoes, but you unfortunately are wearing an old pair of jeans and a rugged shirt, then the picture you are giving out isn’t good. However, if you wear a well chosen selection of clothes then you will be giving yourself more of a chance with the ladies.

The other factor that needs to be taken into account is the situation you will be wearing the clothes in, because it makes all the difference and sometimes you can get away with cheating. When I was at university I went to a lot of the student nights provided by my Students’ Union. They varied in approach and style, but there always seemed to be a similar theme, which was the dress code for the evening or event. One evening might be a beach party, which would inevitably involve dressing up in a costume you would go to the beach in. Another night might be a school disco night, which again would mean donning a white shirt and school tie. It is in these circumstances that wearing the right clothes makes a difference. Throughout life there will be different dress codes and you will get used to it, finding the appropriate clothes for each occasion. And the results will be seen; you will find that special person. Likewise, going to a ball in a beautiful dinner suit and bow tie will reap no end of advantages. The only thing left is to find the ball and getting there.

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Clooney, is he the world’s best seducer?

LadyMagnet — Thu, 25 Jan 2007 03:55:54 +0000

Is it me or do the media love George Clooney? There isn’t one newspaper that hasn’t picked up on the list of sexiest men in the world, with George being at number one. It bemuses most of us to even consider that there is a list, or in fact that someone has come up with criteria for this list. Nevertheless, George Clooney is at number one and I’m going to tell you how he is the world’s best seducer. First, he is clever, this is clear in his political motivation. Second, he is funny. Third, he is attractive to masses of women all over the globe. One of the biggest reasons however, is his Neanderthal nature and that he almost resembles a Neanderthal even after 50,000 years of evolution. This gives him a sexy persona from which to grow. 10 years ago or so, Nicole Kidman and Michelle Pfeiffer bet George $10,000 that by 40 he would be a dad and have a wife, but now at the age of 45 he has proven both of them wrong, and has won himself a nice packet. It might be interested to add that he bet double or nothing that by 50 he would not have a wife or be a dad, so there are still another 5 years to lose the bet and a further $10,000. This all adds up to create a man with very bestial characteristics, who isn’t afraid of a quick fling, or to seduce a women with no real intention of creating a full relationship. He in the eyes of most men is perfect. It must be considered that all those people who suggest this have got a fair point and should be taken seriously. If only we could distil George into a bottle and mass produce it for all the men out there who want to try there hand at his life. Unfortunately, this can’t be done yet, but it doesn’t mean that we can’t give it a go in our own special way. We have to harness what we are good at and use it as best as we can to seduce a woman in our own way. The one thing we can gleam from George however is that when he says he is single and he wants to remain single, the women fall at his feet. Now just think if we were to say that more often, the women would fall at our feet, yes?

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Paulo on seduction

LadyMagnet — Tue, 23 Jan 2007 03:54:14 +0000

There is a fantastic character called Paulo in Friends, he is really only in it during season one as the character is not a regular. Now the reason he is being talked about in conjunction with seduction is that he epitomises it. He is Italian, and has the natural charm to seduce a woman with the click of his fingers, which he does with perfection to Rachel, the character played by Jennifer Anniston. We could all probably learn something from Paulo about seduction if we just analysed the way he approaches women and attempts to forge a relationship with them. First he initiates eye contact, and with that he smiles. This automatically differentiates him from most other men, because most men don’t always smile when they meet a girl. Instead they are so caught up in their emotions and how they are doing that they forget. Secondly, he always tries to touch them on the elbow or shoulder, giving the woman an immediate feeling of ease and security. Something again most of us men fail at when seducing women. Thirdly, he isn’t afraid to do what he wants to do, and doesn’t care what other people think of him. Now this isn’t something we men should be striving for because lets face it, most of us do care what other people think of us, whether it is at work or whether it is with our friends. I personally don’t want my friends thinking of me as a grubby man just to try and score. So a mid point needs to be struck somehow and this is entirely up to you and how you feel in the situation. When Paulo pinches Phoebe’s ass, he doesn’t look round to see if anybody else can see, he just does it, and this is something we need to learn: not to be ashamed to do what we want. Do the things that buzz into your head when you’re having a day dream and enjoy it. Who is really going to mind? The response you might get from women could possibly be positive, you never know. So next time you are out, stop a girl in the street and say “Can I just say, you look fantastic.” You will see a ray of light explode from her face and a beaming smile, isn’t this just perfection? All I can say is thank-you Paulo, or your writers.

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The girl up the road

LadyMagnet — Sun, 21 Jan 2007 03:39:22 +0000

Does sex logically lead on from seduction? In some circumstances it does and in some circumstances it doesn’t. When you first meet a girl and you begin to pursue her with the hope of forging a relationship, the thought of having sex with her is probably never far from your mind, and so it shouldn’t. But in society we have been curbed and moulded to think that sex should not come directly from seduction and that instead it should be something of a bonus if it does happen. Is this right? No, and here’s why. Seduction is a combination of stages, each of which are on separate levels. On the first level is the initiation stage, where contact is first made and conversation is struck between the two people. On the second stage the act of intimacy begins, like the exchange of beliefs and feelings. And on the third stage is the intimacy breakthrough, where a full understanding between the two is reached, and a physical relationship begins, including sex. This shows clearly that sex is very important, for as Robert Winstone, the famous Doctor and Peer in the English House of Lords says, “Sex is all around, and is very important.” Now how much more evidence do you need that seduction leads to sex? I’m guessing by now not a lot. Who ever heard of seduction that wasn’t meant for sex and the forging of relationships, it almost sounds absurd and should really be something of a myth? But alas, it is common and all too prevalent in today’s society. One way we can get round this is by embracing sex and not viewing it as a goal at the end of a tunnel, but in fact seeing it as something wonderful and natural, and as a part of the path of seduction. Whenever it occurs on the path, be it at the beginning when you first meet a woman and take her home on the first date, or be it after 4 dates and a bottle of win when you know each other quite well, or even after several weeks or months when every other road has been explored and you are ready to make the final jump. It isn’t something you need to think about either, just let it happen and you’ll see how easy it is to link it into the path of seduction.

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Foreign seduction, and why it is better.

LadyMagnet — Wed, 17 Jan 2007 00:38:19 +0000

You may ask yourself sometimes why not go and seduce foreign women. And this is a very good question, because lets face it, foreign women are much more in tune to the dating game and are far better at acting as though they enjoy it. Take for example a french friend of mine; she is attractive, funny and intelligent. But above all she knows how to flirt, outrageously. So much so that on our way back from a night out which, let me be honest, involved a good amount of close dancing, we were bantering about what our types were in the opposite sex. And through all this pushing and pulling we ended up kissing, and then going back to her place. Now this isn’t how we expect a normal girl to act but because this girl is foreign, there is automatically a different method of approach to these matters. It must be ingrained in their psyche from an early age: how to flirt and be seduced. I just don’t understand why we don’t hold it more important in our everyday life, considering it is the reason we are alive.

Why is it so frustrating when we go abroad on holiday or what ever reason it is we go abroad for and find in the most remote town, in a truckers café as we stop off for a well deserved meal before trekking the other 400 miles to a coastal gite, that you meet in the café the most outrageously flirtatious girl flaunting herself to you and making conversation. The best we get at home is to go into a café to have a miserable lady serve us chips, with a cigarette hanging half way out of her mouth. It is an issue of culture and precisely how far we have strayed from what is right. We need to learn from foreign people how to behave in flirtatious, seductive and sexual situations; after all, who is going to benefit from being grumpy and shy when the need for reproduction comes along? Absolutely no-one.

This by the way hasn’t happened just once when being on holiday, but for the last few years; where-ever I have gone abroad, there has always been a lady overly welcome and outgoing, which makes it all the more possible for me to use my techniques and methods of seduction on her, and hopefully start something special.

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Teach Seduction so it isn’t taboo

LadyMagnet — Sun, 14 Jan 2007 23:40:05 +0000

S it time for seduction to be taught at schools? Not in specific lessons like Maths, Science or English – although from I can remember seduction did crop up a fair bit in Shakespeare’s plays, like Romeo and Juliet, and A Midsummer Night’s Dream – but rather as a part of this new citizenship lesson that the government have introduced. I say this because more and more these days, people don’t seem to know how to conduct themselves in matters relating to relationships, and in particular they don’t know how to flirt and court women. On television today I watched a programme about a group of people in Scotland who all agreed to have dates with fellow ‘singletons’ to try and forge a relationship solely propelled by a television crew aiming at getting ratings up. There must be something fundamentally wrong with society if we can’t do this sort of thing on our own, which is why I propose the idea of love, relationships and the importance of interpersonal bonding being taught to children of all ages. Just think, if it was taught at a younger age then people would be more aware of what it was and what it entailed. This might then lead to less divorces and a more together society. I personally would like to see it, but cannot see it happening in the near future, which is a shame. Nevertheless, what can be done is to help people realise the importance of seduction and how integral it is to life. Get out there and seduce, whether it be through conversation in the supermarket, or at a party with a girl you have been eyeing up for the past two months. It doesn’t matter what the situation is, what does matter is that it is done.

I had a long talk with a good friend of mine about this subject and we agreed to do something about it. Even though if all that meant was that we were going to go out and ask a girl out. It might be a small plan to get two girls and two guys to date and use seduction, but it means there are four less people not doing anything about it in society; and as little as this may sound, we feel it important and our duty as part of the human race to stand up for what we believe in: seduction.

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When you wake up in the morning.

LadyMagnet — Sat, 13 Jan 2007 12:07:17 +0000

When you wake up in the morning and role over to see the woman from the night before on the other side of the bed, what do you do to remove yourself from the situation without branding yourself a user, or a bad guy? I have found this a really tricky situation in the past, and through experience I have found that it isn’t very easy to do the right thing, what ever that is. I want to add that there isn’t a rule book or an etiquette handbook for one night stands and so it is not always easy to get it right. For example, when I once woke up after what I can call a good night, I got straight yup out of bed and put my clothes on, gave her a quick kiss on the lips and headed for the door. Now, I thought I was doing an acceptable thing, but oh no, apparently not. She said, “and where do you think you’re going?” implying that I hadn’t quite overstayed my welcome and there was something fundamental I had missed out of the whole experience. I don’t to this day know what it was, but the long and short of it all is that I hadn’t got it right, and needless to say, it never happened again. However, another time when I woke up next to a woman, I stayed in bed thinking that this time I’ll get it right so as not to burn my bridges. Again I think I made a mistake, I don’t think she wanted the small talk in the morning or the awkwardness after the event. Eventually I left, which I am sure was well past my sell by date. How are men supposed to get it right? We do everything we can t seduce a women in the nicest possible way, get the goods and then are forced to get it wrong when the time comes to get out. I have never really understood the differences between certain women and how they react after an event and I am sure I never will, but all I can say is that try and suss out what they are like before that awkward moment so you know how to deal with it when it stares you in the face. It will make your life a lot easier, trust me, I’ve tried, and I wish it had given it some thought.

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Look how important seduction is.

LadyMagnet — Sun, 07 Jan 2007 00:44:11 +0000

Isn’t it funny how we all get caught up in the day to day running of our lives, so much so that we sometimes forget to step back and really think about what’s important. I’d like to think that I step back a fair amount and view everything in perspective but I’m sure I don’t give it enough thought, and in particular thought to seduction. Scientifically, and this is true I assure you, our sex drives never really sleep, they are constantly on the move and are always looking for there next climax, and as such they should be regularly used so that no problems come to the fore. Let me ask you a question. When was the last time you had sex? And when was the time before that? I hope that the time before that isn’t over a month, not that there’s anything wrong with it, but more that you need to give yourself a sexual workout. The way to get round this and ensure that you are getting enough sexual exercise is seduction. And the more you do the more healthy you will be. Just think of it as normal exercise, like say a two mile run, two or three times a week. If you think of it like this then you’ll soon find a technique that suits you.

I know it’s almost a taboo subject, and to be honest I feel slightly edgy about bringing the subject up, but is it really a big issue? If you go to the doctor with a problem, he doesn’t shy away from it, and neither should we. We have to harness our seduction skills so that we exercise our sexual appetite, and let me tell you, we all have one, the only difference is that some peoples’ are large and some are small, and others are in between. It doesn’t matter where, but you need to find your level and nurture it. Seduction is central, and there are many links found on Ladymagnet.com which are of great help, as there are several articles which might give you a few pointers. I love seduction, I cannot recommend it enough; everybody has a slightly seductive nature, so why not use it more. It is great fun and a great way to meet people. Don’t ever let anyone tell you t isn’t right; it is and you need to be proud of it.

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